Archive for August, 2008

This Sore Throat Remedy Works So Good That…

Sunday, August 31st, 2008

If you were to get a sore throat, what would you do. Public speakers, this is especially for you.

There are a lot of home remedies. This one works. So good as a matter of fact, I have not had a sore throat in over a decade. They may try to get started, but if you do this one thing, you will not have a sore throat.

My wife even felt a cold coming on. She did it and skipped on having the cold. It is that good. And it only costs $2-3 and it will last you a year.

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One Business in 100 Will Sruvive 15 Years
Can You Say That in a Positive Way?

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

Here is my try…

Competition should be welcome and help keep us to strive for constant improvement. In the end, the majority of the competition will be the fertilizer of the green pastures of those who do not give up.

Ok Word smiths…how would you say it and make it positive.

Jonathan

PS…I am getting a lot of MFA sites posting. Sorry but I only link to sites that offer great content.

AA for Public Speakers if You Should Need It

Monday, August 25th, 2008

To become a professional, one of the hurdles can be overcome by attending
AA for Public Speakers

Of course this is referring to Adjectives Anonymous. As a public speaker or speech writer if you learn how to kill the adjective, your speaking will improve.

Enjoy.

The Undefinable!

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

One of the constant challenges facing public speakers is simplicity. How con you give your message in the least amount of words and not lose any of the meaning of the message.

Sometimes somethings cannot be explained. If that is the case just say so.

For instance, how (and this is your illustration to say that you cannot describe something) would you describe the taste of a cherry?

Have fun with your use of words.

Finnish Up

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Wrong: You can finish up your business with me and we can be on our way.

Right: You can finish your business with me and we can be on our way.

Master the Speaker Skills

Sunday, August 10th, 2008

Is your public speaking progress limited by your lack on mastery of the speaking skills?

The quality of speaking any public speaker attains is dependent on mastering the three pillars of great speaking.

What You Say,
How You Say It and
How You Present Yourself

Nestled in each of these pillars are the skills that the best public speakers use.

There are many pages on the web focused on overcoming fear in public speaking. There are numerous pages on using humor in public speaking. Occasionally you will see information on the skills public speakers need to have, and if so usually it will be by one of several sites devoted to the mastery of public speaking.

Although one of the least covered aspects of public speaking, it can bring the best return on your investment in developing these skill sets. As to the fear factor, one of the best ways to overcome fear of anything we might do is to master the skills involved in doing it. Likewise, master these skills and you will not need to use humor, at least overtly.

Think back to when we were children. Most of us found ice to play on at some point in our childhood. When first on the ice, we were probably a bit fearful. We didn’t know our limitations. With in a short time, as we got comfortable, we would be running and sliding on the ice, having a lot of fun.

Public speaking is the same way for those who have made a career of it. It has become fun for us. This is not to say we still do not get nervous before a big speech. Many of us still do. We have learned to channel those feelings into constant and never ending improvement.

Here is a partial list of the various skills speakers need to master. Once learned, continued practice is essential to keep the skills.

The Skills Of Public Speaking

Know the Make Up of Your Audience

Informative to the Audience

Introductions that Capture Attention

Words Clearly Spoken

Accurate Pronunciation

Correct Word Usage

Proper Name Pronunciation

Speech Appropriate to a Theme

Using Analogy

Create an Outline

Proper use of Notes

Use of an Outline

Audience Contact

Fluency

Pace Pitch Power

Avoiding Word Whiskers

Pausing

Sense stress

Modulation

Enthusiastic Presentation

Naturalness

Gestures

Coherence Through Connectives

Dynamic Range

Avoiding Mannerisms

Timing

Rapport with Audience

Never Use Profanity

Use positive speech?

Dress, Grooming and Poise

Some of these may seem that they would be obvious to use in public speaking. Even so, they are skills that need to be mastered.

Start learning speech mastery by working on one or two of these speaking skills the next time you give a talk. Whether your speaking to one or one thousand, your practice will help you improve.

Speak well and prosper and above all, have fun.

The Speaker Skills List
Other Public Speaking Tips

you ought not use hadn’t ought

Saturday, August 9th, 2008

wrong: you hadn’t ought to have done that.
right: you ought not have done that.

Inspire With Your Speech

Monday, August 4th, 2008

Here are some links to help you inspire when public speaking. It is a gift. When you learn how you will be able to give a gift to your audience.

Start learning.

Do you know the two elements required to be inspirational?

Some inspirational quotes.

Are you using the inspirational elements in your speaking?

An inspirational true story about the power of life and love.

Can Your Speaking Skill Tune In to the Listening Audience?

Sunday, August 3rd, 2008

Can Your Speaking Skill Tune In to the Listening Audience?

Many public speaking books will say all listening audiences are basically the same. You will find in your experience and based on science, on at least a few levels this is not true.

Listening is a complex process that can be a challenge for most people. If you don’t believe it, just tell someone a complex problem and have them tell the next person who tells a third who repeats to you.

It only takes one person with limited listening skills for everyone else to get it wrong. This is a compelling reason to not listen to gossip and hearsay.

Some of the science of listening includes the stages of listening and listening style among others. These two especially have a bearing on public speaking.

The Four Stages Of Listening

The four stages are somewhat self explanatory.

Sensing The sense of hearing being employed to take in the message.
Understanding The processing and interpreting of the message.
Evaluating Appraising the message.
Responding Acting on the message.

Listening Style Speak to Reach All Four

The four types of listening are a bit more complicated to explain. Here is a brief overview.

Analytical /analyst
This listening style will be questioning, wanting details, facts, research and figures.

Driver /controller
Results oriented, usually sitting at the front of the audience, they will want you to get to the point. They will want to know how they can use the information now.

Amiable /supporter
These are the worker bees of an organization or group. They like to be told what to do, how and when to do it.

Expressive / promoter

They want to be involved and will tend to appreciate audience participation. They will become easily bored with the technical data.

Reach All In Your Audience

To reach and hold the attention of all in the audience, public speakers need to balance these elements of listening.

There needs to be enough data to please the analytical listener without boring the expressive. The program needs to move along for the goal oriented driver. Being open, comforting and empathetic will satisfy the amiable personality.

Learn how to master the ability to speak to the various styles and you will start to notice the various listeners in your audience.

They will compliment you because you not only satisfied them, you fulfilled their needs.

More importantly, you will be well on your way to speechmastery.
Learn the Art of Listening
Are They Listening?
Are you speaking to their listening style?

The Yolk’s On You

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

One speaker thought he had a brilliant illustration. He asked the audience what a yoke was.

Only thing, he started to describe how a yolk was almost inseparable from an egg white. Not only did he reveal his misunderstanding of word usage, he also seemed to have never cooked either.

Right: He ate the egg yolk.
Wrong: He ate the egg yoke.

Right: Their marriage was successful because they were yoked to each other in an inseparable bond of love.