Posts Tagged ‘speechmastery’

An e-mail from Seth Godin and Use of Words

Sunday, February 7th, 2010

I just got an email from Seth Godin this Sunday Morning.

It was exciting to say the least. Seth is one of my favorite writers. My top pick of his writing is still Small is the Next Big but he has written other books that are probably considered even more important.

When I grow up, I want to be able to write like Seth. Er eh, think like, create like, manage like and in many business ways be like Seth Godin.

I learned a lot from this email. Although not sharing all, there is one important point that involves public speaking and speechmastery.

Let me explain.

I am managing a product launch for an attorney who wrote a book on the new FTC Guides regarding testimonials. To promote it will require the use of words. Both in pitching it when I speak and in e-mails sent out.

The affiliate program for selling the book can be found at Attorney Coopers Website. But you will not find the book there yet. It is being launched soon. (you can be a part of the launch if you want to see how one works…kinda like being a fly on the wall).

BTW…if you sign up, you will be directly signing up under Attorney Cooper and not as a sub affiliate of me. I do not get any affiliate income from this.

But this is not what I am writing about.

If your going to be a successful speaker, you will have to learn to master the words you use. The same is true of any kind of marketing.

How can you know if your words are reaching the heart of your audience or not? How can you know if your marketing is working or not?

The only way to know is testing. In the case of public speaking, you will have to learn to read the audience. You will read them as you speak and after you have completed speaking.

This can only be learned from actually speaking in front of audiences.

In marketing, you can measure the response to tell how well your words worked.

Well, I managed to get Seth Godin’s contact info and sent my pitch on the new FTC Guides and how to legally comply. Here was a challenge. How could I get someone like Seth to even open my email? It would take the perfect use of words.

Also, anything involving ‘legal compliance’ sounds like a boring topic. I did not say anything about the $11,000 fine you can end up paying if you get do not comply with the new guides. There is not a lot of drama here.

But I found the right words. I will tell you what the words were after the launch is completed. For now, let me continue with the story…and what I learned in my choice of words.

Although Seth said that my proposal would not work for him, the fact that he replied is what is important. This meant that he actually read my proposal.

This is big. To get someone like Seth Godin to actually read an email, let alone a pitch, which he probably gets thousands of, and to get a response, well, this made my week, no, it made my month.

More importantly, it told me that my word choice has the power to get past one of, probably the best mental spam filters in the world, that of Seth Godin.

If you do not know who he is, check out his blog…

Seth Godins Blog. is one of the top 50 internet marketing blogs.

Words.

They have power.

Learn to use them.

Speak well and prosper.

Please weigh in…what do you think?

Introductions and Greetings: What Do You Say?

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Introductions and greetings are an important part of speechmastery.

Here are some introductions for, “How are you?”

Wonderful but I will get over it.
Fantastic but getting better.
It is a great day to be alive.
It is a great day to be alive, but are not all days great days?
Perfect.
I am feeling partly sunny with a chance of happiness showering down on me.

What can you add to this list?

We have already added a few more to this list. You can find them at Introductions and Greetings on the Speechmastery.com site.

Enjoy and…

Speak well and prosper.

Speech Mastery: How Can It Be Yours?

Friday, July 31st, 2009

To become an master speaker requires not only practicing public speaking skill, but an understanding of the elements of great speaking, how and why they work and when to use them.

Observing these qualities in other speakers or seeing where they should have been used but were not can help your own progress. Public speech critique is a tool to help you better see and analyze your own speeches.

When you see someone use the various skills masterfully, you will be able to grow in your skills by imitation. Your appreciation will be enhanced as you see and understand the dynamics unfold as you observe.

Learn Other Ways to Improve Public Speaking

Master the Speaker Skills

Sunday, August 10th, 2008

Is your public speaking progress limited by your lack on mastery of the speaking skills?

The quality of speaking any public speaker attains is dependent on mastering the three pillars of great speaking.

What You Say,
How You Say It and
How You Present Yourself

Nestled in each of these pillars are the skills that the best public speakers use.

There are many pages on the web focused on overcoming fear in public speaking. There are numerous pages on using humor in public speaking. Occasionally you will see information on the skills public speakers need to have, and if so usually it will be by one of several sites devoted to the mastery of public speaking.

Although one of the least covered aspects of public speaking, it can bring the best return on your investment in developing these skill sets. As to the fear factor, one of the best ways to overcome fear of anything we might do is to master the skills involved in doing it. Likewise, master these skills and you will not need to use humor, at least overtly.

Think back to when we were children. Most of us found ice to play on at some point in our childhood. When first on the ice, we were probably a bit fearful. We didn’t know our limitations. With in a short time, as we got comfortable, we would be running and sliding on the ice, having a lot of fun.

Public speaking is the same way for those who have made a career of it. It has become fun for us. This is not to say we still do not get nervous before a big speech. Many of us still do. We have learned to channel those feelings into constant and never ending improvement.

Here is a partial list of the various skills speakers need to master. Once learned, continued practice is essential to keep the skills.

The Skills Of Public Speaking

Know the Make Up of Your Audience

Informative to the Audience

Introductions that Capture Attention

Words Clearly Spoken

Accurate Pronunciation

Correct Word Usage

Proper Name Pronunciation

Speech Appropriate to a Theme

Using Analogy

Create an Outline

Proper use of Notes

Use of an Outline

Audience Contact

Fluency

Pace Pitch Power

Avoiding Word Whiskers

Pausing

Sense stress

Modulation

Enthusiastic Presentation

Naturalness

Gestures

Coherence Through Connectives

Dynamic Range

Avoiding Mannerisms

Timing

Rapport with Audience

Never Use Profanity

Use positive speech?

Dress, Grooming and Poise

Some of these may seem that they would be obvious to use in public speaking. Even so, they are skills that need to be mastered.

Start learning speech mastery by working on one or two of these speaking skills the next time you give a talk. Whether your speaking to one or one thousand, your practice will help you improve.

Speak well and prosper and above all, have fun.

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Are You Searching for Benny Goodman?

Saturday, July 19th, 2008

SpeechmasteryBlog is here.

What do Speechmastery, Benny Goodman and you have in common?

Before I answer, let me briefly tell you about Benny Goodman.

Searching for Benny Goodman
Long before the movie Looking for Bobby Fisher came out my personal credo was simply, “Looking for Benny Goodman.” Possibly you are too. Let me explain.

Benny was the best Clarinetist the world will probably ever know. As a young lad I played the clarinet. The first time seeing him play Flight of the Bumble Bee changed my life.

Thinking it would never be possible to be that good, that evening that my clarinet was put away and all interest was lost. It was only played out of necessity for school, only without the same zeal. The next semester instead of Band Class, I signed up for Gym, started playing football and soccer.

That night started a quest for me. It was looking for something to be great at, looking for what I could be a Benny Goodman with.

What I Did Not Know

Benny Goodman practiced 6 hours a day. If you want to hear a clarinet, check out Dave Bennett. Click on Sing Sing Sing. It may even sound familiar as it is a tune often used in period movies.

Another factoid I was unaware of is that most professionals do not peak until they have spent 10 years in their profession.

What does this have to do with Speechmastery and you?

Do you need to make mistakes to learn or can you learn from others mistakes?

Speechmastery takes time and practice. It is a journey that takes years. If you invest in it, it will pay huge dividends.

Purpose is what Speechmastery, Benny Goodman and you have in common? The main purpose in the life of Benny Goodman was to play the clarinet. If of the many things on your plate, if your here, then most likely Speechmastery is your purpose. Like Benny Goodman, you are constantly and enduringly working toward that goal.

The SpeechmasteryBlog Purpose

Our purpose is to help public speakers attain mastery of the art of public speaking.

The three pillars of mastering public speaking are…

* What we say Speaking

* How we say it Speaking

How we present ourselves Speaking

There is a Fourth Pillar

It has to do with Mastering Making Money Public Speaking.

The SpeechmasteryBlog will focus on these four areas.

Could This Be You?
You are working toward constant and never ending improvement. You are looking within yourself for the perfect presentation.

Even though it will never happen due to human imperfection, you keep trying. It is who you are. It is what you are.

You most likely are not a perfectionist. You are a creationist. You want to create the best you can.

Is this you. Are you looking for Speechmastery?

A Vital Element

One of the vital elements of mastering any skill is being able to teach others the skill.
SpeechmasteryBlog.com is here for that interaction.

Does it work for you? Why does it work for you?

Challenge what you see here. We don’t want to hear that it will not work. Why will it not work. Why did it not work for you.

Articulate with words how others can improve.

Help others master public speaking and you will promote the creation of an even bigger market. The better quality speaking people are exposed to the more people will want it.

We are to the podium what actors are to the big screen and what Musicians are to the stage. There are a lot of actors and musicians. They all help each other.

As speakers, can we help each other? There will only be one Benny Goodman. Will you be Benny Goodman for the topics you speak about?

Help and be helped right here. Help others to grow yourself.

Be a part of the art of public speaking.